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Hello everyone!
I am new to this board (this is my very first post!). I have been
reading about the LoA for about 6 months off and on but really have been
getting into it within the last month and a half.

Although my main goal is of course to have a happy, fulfilling life
overall, I am currently working on manifesting my ex boyfriend back into
my life. We broke up just over 3 years ago and it devastated me because
I really consider him to be the love of my life. I can see where we
both went wrong in the relationship and I understand now that I
basically attracted that outcome into my life. For a long time I stayed
upset and desperate, convinced I would never be happy. I see now that I
was actually pushing him away with my thoughts and attitude.

I have even spoken to him about getting back together this year and he
has said that he needs to stay with his current partner who is the
mother of his child (child was around before we got together). He wants
to be a good dad which I understand completely. He has said that he is
not sure he is really happy and the gut feeling that I have is he still
cares for me but he feels a duty to stay with his child's mom. I asked
if he thought we could ever be together when his child is older and he
said maybe. This all happened before I got into the LoA and I can see
now how desperate I was. It's a little sad actually.

Anyway, since practicing the LoA I feel like things have changed between
us. To an outside person they might not see a difference but for awhile
it felt like he avoided me (of course he would with all the negative
energy I was spewing!). Now it feels different and last week felt like a
breakthrough moment when I met him in a store and he smiled at me with a
huge grin and asked how I was. Sounds like a simple thing but our
energy felt like our old energy and connection.

Anyway, I do believe I can attract him back but I find some days I'm
really into it and feeling good and other days I can't imagine how he
would possibly leave his current situation for me. I am also in a
relationship, as I tried to put aside my feelings for the man I love and
find someone new. He is a wonderful guy but the relationship just
doesn't have that special something.

Anyway, do you all believe I can attract my ex back? How do I stay
positive about it all every day? And doesn't current relationship block a
new one with my ex?

Thank you all for your thoughts.